Do you find yourself feeling extremely shy and nervous each time there is someone you like and want to ask him/ her out? Have you missed out on many suitable matches mainly due to your shy nature? Do you find yourself sitting and wondering whether you’re ever going to find your special someone and have the courage to ask them out on a date?
Well if the above questions are accompanying your mind and single life, then don’t worry. There are many ways to have a relationship and date even if you’re shy and not able to just walk up to someone at the bar and ask for their number. So if you’re ready to make the little efforts to get a date for yourself, then here are some of the ways you can meet new people and date.
Take help from friends and family
It is completely understandable if you don’t want your friends and family members to get involved and meddle in your love life. Afterall, who wants their parents to be setting them up with a prospective life partner? It’s weird, yes. But, it might not be such a bad idea to get your friends and family involved. Tell your family or close friends to introduce you to someone over a friendly dinner with everyone, together. Meeting someone at a friendly dinner or gettogether is easier than meeting someone at a blind date. Ask your friends to not make things very obvious or awkward and help you in breaking the ice with your date-to-be. Participate in the conversations at the dinner table or strike a casual conversation with the guy or girl. By the end of the night if you feel that things are going well, just casually ask for his/her number so that you both can catch up later for a casual outing like a movie or coffee. Don’t take it as a date, take it as a casual meeting and get to know the person. It’s easier to know someone when you’re all hanging out as a group of friends.
This is a very convenient and popular way of going on a date and meeting someone special. Dating services are professional dating agencies, which match you with a person, depending on your personality, likes, dislikes etc. The probability of you meeting someone you will like, is quite high because dating professionals go through your entire profile, personality assessment and then recommend someone from their database, who they feel will be a suitable choice for you. Another advantage of going through a dating service is that almost everyone in their database is looking for a relationship so there’s no scope of you going on a date with someone who’s not looking for a relationship. You’re both going to be on the same page in terms of your expectations.
You can also join some activity where you are bound to meet Asian women. Join some music, dance or pottery classes, whatever you like and start interacting with new people. It is a little easier to talk to people when you have a common activity with them. Make sure you pick an activity that you like and also brings a lot of single people together. The best way to find out about such activities is to ask around your work or friend circle. Approach people to ask them about some activities that you can join to meet new people and once you’re in, conversations are bound to take place between people. What you need to ensure is that you actively participate in conversations and hang out with people.
Each person is different and if you’re an introvert or a shy person, it shouldn’t mean that you don’t get to date and give love a chance. Find your confidence and know that you deserve some romance. So go out there and get yourself a date with the help of some of the tips mentioned above. What’s most important is for you to be happy and comfortable, so make sure whoever you’re with or date, is making you happy. Good luck!